Saturday, December 31, 2016

Jesus and Wine

I was thinking last night (while lying awake wishing I could sleep) about how Jesus turned water into wine for his first miracle.  I mean, it’s a cool miracle but why would he choose that as his very first one? Just didn’t want the party to stop?  Of course not.  I realized I had never thought too much about why this particular miracle was first.  I think it’s because it totally reflects Jesus’ purpose on Earth.  

Our bodies are vessels.  What is important is not the body but what is in it.  When we are saved, we are fundamentally transformed.  We don’t change on the outside, yet everything inside is different.  Water has no aroma, no color, no effect other than to hydrate.  Wine has color, scent, and taste.

Jesus didn’t turn water into wine because it was a party trick, or because the wedding guests wanted wine.  It was His very first illustration of the profound change that takes place when He is in our lives.  

So be wine.  Yummy, delicious, refreshing wine that makes others want to be like you.

MommyCon

Recently a friend posted pictures on facebook of her time at ComicCon.  It looked like fun.  Got me to thinking.  We should have a MommyCon.

MommyCon would be different from ComicCon in some ways.  I’m picturing big padded rooms with a bunch of soft toys and wine vendors surrounding them with high stools.  Moms can sit up on their stools and keep an eye on their little ones.

Other rooms could have Paw Patrol on one screen and a fun grown up movie on the other, with some soundproof glass in between.  And wine vendors – did I mention wine vendors?  Big bouncy house.  And wine.

Moms can even dress up just like at ComicCon.  Some ideas:
  • Newborn mom – stretched out yoga pants, greasy hair, tank top (because – nursing!), stains consisting of spit up and baby poop.
  • Toddler mom – slightly less stretched out yoga pants and not too greasy hair.  Shirt with sticky unknown food stains.  Toys in pockets.  
  • Smug mom – you know her.  She feeds her kid organic non-gmo cardboard of some sort and tells you about how her 2 year old is reading Tolstoy and finding him pedantic.  Outfit consists of something from lululemon.  
  • Mom of school aged kids – my kids are 3 months and 2 years old.  This mom is triumphant and gets to wear actual JEWELRY because her kids are past the pulling on everything stage.  

The only issue, raised by one of my friends, is with the aforementioned wine vendors (everywhere, I mean everywhere), making sure drunk on wine mom doesn’t load her precious cargo into the car and drive off.

So maybe MommyCon should be adults only?    

The Problem with Black Lives Matter

Black Lives Matter - I get it.  I'm not one of those conservatives who takes issue with the name.  I understand there's an unstated -too- at the end of it.  And I understand the issue they are trying to call attention to - disparate policing practices.  I just think they're going about it the wrong way and also missing the bigger issue.

First, we know from FBI statistics that over 90% of blacks killed are killed by other blacks.  In 2013 (according to the FBI), 2,491 black people were murdered. 114 police officers were killed in the line of duty the same year.  A USA Today analysis of shootings of black suspects by police found over a 7 year period ending in 2012 the average was 96 per year.

So all told the percentage of black deaths attributable to police is approximately 3.8 percent.  Let's assume there has been an increase of 150% since 2012 (a very generous assumption).  That's 5.7 percent of blacks killed by police.  Now let's make another (very generous) assumption that half of those were unjustified.

So you've got a movement focused on 2.85% of the blacks killed in a year.  And this movement is just making things worse.

As an aside (this could fill it's own blog post), I've heard the analogy of the BLM movement vs. the All Lives Matter people as "this house is on fire so let's focus on the house on fire and worry about the problems with other houses later."  Except if less than 3% of the tragic deaths of black people is a fire, what is the other 97%?  Children are dying in gang wars.  They are far more innocent than most of the people shot by police.  But again, that's another discussion for another day (and I recognize that each death is a tragedy in itself).

On to my main point.

Cops are human and painfully aware of the dangers of their jobs.  This has always been a fact of life for them but now their fear is heightened.  I have heard directly from multiple officers that they feel there is a war on cops right now.  This only exacerbates the problem.  Scared cops are more likely to use force because they want to go home to their families at the end of the day.

A better approach would be to build bridges, not burn them.  Community outreach with local police departments.  Sit down and have coffee with an officer and talk to him/her about how policing can be improved. Talk about what kind of training can make things better.

Above all, remember cops are human and they just want to live too.  And the more violent the neighborhood - and the less they feel the people of the community have their backs - the more likely they are going to want to act to protect themselves - just like you would.

It's not a cop problem. It's not a racism problem (and the statistics are pretty clear on that).  It's not a black problem.  It's a human problem and we don't need to make enemies of one another.


2 Year Olds and Toothbrushing

Brushing his teeth really isn't that important, right?  I mean, they're going to fall out anyways.  Ugh, it's one of those battles I know I -should- pick but when I'm doing the picking getting him to just go to sleep before 9:30 seems more important..